Well... Apparently I fell off the planet there for awhile... but I've thought of this space often. I compose blog posts in my head all the time. And then they get lost in there with the sleep deprivation and the details of every day life with a newborn and toddler. Oh yeah and a wife. (and a CRAZY dog...don't worry, cuckoo dog is still going strong)
So what has happened in the last 7ish months you ask?
Oh just a whole lifetimes worth of stuff!
But the most important being that I successfully remained pregnant for 40 weeks and after a very hard labor and somewhat intense delivery our little BOY joined our family!
We've been a family of four for just about 7.5weeks now. And it has been hard and exhausting and incredible and joyful and just about every other emotion you can imagine. Our not so little girl has been doing incredibly well adjusting to the roll of big sister. (Although to be fair, she has definitely been really clingy...) She loves her baby brother so much. She comes running through the door after day care each day looking for him! She likes to give him hugs and bring him toys and talk to him. She says he talks back...and smiles at her. And sometimes he really does!
Baby brother (who I believe is going to be called Winston here - as one of my amazing blog friend over at Little Monsters and Mommies says he looks like Winston Churchill...and I kind of agree) is doing pretty well. He's turning into quite a chunk in his 7 week old age. We struggled quite a bit with colic and probably reflux in the beginning - a rough change from our first born who was a pretty mellow kid. But he's coming around and we're better equipped after a few weeks. He really is adorable though, with cheeks for days. And he's starting to smile - which is amazing because baby girl was NOT a smiley baby! So I'm really hoping Baby Brother is going to be our chubby smiley kid!
My wife is a champion! She has been taking care of me and the babies and the furbaby and the house and basically everything else. The fact that she's still standing after 7 weeks of nonsense - It's pretty incredible! Newborns are hard on marriage - and we've cried and fought and suffered - but we're most definitely coming out the other side. And the sunshine on this side of the darkness is DAZZLING. The future is oh so bright y'all.
I'm doing well, all things considered, I think! It's been quite a whirlwind of pregnancy and delivery and maternity leave. But as it turns out - my body is the champion of healing (even if it wasn't quite the best at pregnancy/delivery). And it turns out that I'm still in love with being a mother. And I still adore my wife and the incredible life we've built.
So that's what's happening over here.
Birth story to come soon! Before I forget! And some updates about this new little nugget that has joined our family. And maybe a few summer updates before summer disappears (where in the world is the time and this year going?!)
Love to you all! Glad to be back!
And a sneak peak: